Like Family by Erin O. WhiteMy rating: 4 of 5 stars
Thank you to NetGalley and The Dial Press for providing me with an advanced copy of this book in exchange for my honest review!
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Radclyffe, New York, is an idyllic upstate town, nestled in the hills and complete with artisanal bakeries, pottery studios, and hidden swimming holes. Ruth and her wife, Wyn, are living the dream (or Wyn’s dream, at least) with their four children on their small farm, which is also the bucolic gathering place for their circle of friends. It’s a sweet life, but there’s a secret at its center, one that not even Ruth’s best friend, Caroline, knows.
What Caroline does know is that she loves and depends on Ruth, and on the bond between their families. More than anything, she wants her tender-hearted son not to grow up lonely the way she did. Unfortunately, no one can assure her of that, especially not her husband. He just wants things to be easy, drama-free—which is impossible, as he has donated his sperm to his cousin Tobi and her wife so that they could have kids of their own. Now those children are asking unanswerable questions.
After an unexpected death in their community, all three couples are forced to confront the tensions that have long been buried beneath the surfaces of their lives. Richly textured and big-hearted, this exhilarating debut is an unforgettable story of the alchemy of love and loyalty that makes friends Like Family.
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This is a beautiful debut novel that celebrates the nuance and complexity of all types of female relationships. As White leads us on a journey, told through the experiences of one member of each of the three couples at the heart of this story, we are introduced to three different versions of the American family and the impact that an unexpected death in their community has had on each of them. Some of the characters felt at times a bit polarizing, as they were as imperfect and real as the people you meet in your everyday life, but they also resonated strongly with me because this is a book that is written about people of my generation (X), and that is not something I often find. It was a beautiful celebration of female friendship, an acknowledgment of the uncertainties that can accompany midlife (Am I doing any of this right?), and an exploration of the messiness that is family life. However, as I sit here with my thoughts, having just read the last word, I am left thinking about how heart-warming and big-hearted the book was and how much I enjoyed reading it. I hope that it is just the first novel we can expect from this author. This is just the kind of immersive, character-driven writing that I love to fill my bookshelves with.
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